"You are very brave" Marlene Dietrich
tells Gary Cooper when he pulls her
to his lap as she sells him an apple
that he has no money to purchase.
Marlene Dietrich
in Morocco (1930)
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Marlene Dietrich
in Morocco (1930)
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Marlene & Gary Cooper
in Morocco (1930)
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In Josef von Sternberg's 1930 film Morocco,
Marlene Dietrich played a nightclub singer Amy Jolly,
while Gary Cooper was Tom Brown, a Legionnaire private. After her songs, she carries a basket of
apples, selling them at the tables. Gary Cooper applauds her singing and she throws him a flower.
He doesn't have enough money to buy her apples, and she gives him one anyway. Then he pulls
her down to his lap, and Marlene says "You are very brave" and puts her house key in his hands. |
You are brave courting your beloved
abandoning all fears of rejection.
You are lucky if winds blow your way
when she says "Yes" to your proposal.
Courtship in Jane Austen
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Man on his knees with flowers
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While movie lore and myth legends inspired this poem, this stanza is down the earth.
Whe searching for an image of the fortune cookie "Love is for the lucky and the brave",
came across a web page with the query I got a fortune cookie,
"Love is for the lucky and the brave". What does this mean? Here are some of the submitted answers
(1) I think it means you have to be brave to try to find love and lucky to actually get it.
(2) Love is for the lucky because it requires luck to find someone with which you can
share a deep connection. Love is for the brave because it requires overcoming one's fears.
(3) You have to be lucky enough to find someone that shares the same basic ethical and
material values as you. You have to be brave enough to forgive the other person for
whatever they might do and more importantly you have to forgive yourself when
need be. You have to be brave enough to face the world together. |
Brave is Sir Gawain when he accepts
Green Knight's challenge to be beheaded.
Lucky is he who receives three kisses
and the wife's garter for protection.
Sir Gawain & the Green Knight
by the Pearl Poet (14th Century)
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Lady Bertilak Seducing Sir Gawain
with Three Kisses & Her Garter
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Lady Kissing Sir Gawain
by Fortescue-Brickdale
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Joseph Campbell's tale of "Sir Gawain & the Green Knight"
in Power of Myth (pp. 152-153) is one of the most
riveting stories of medieval romance. The Green Knight comes to King Arthur's Court & challenges the knights
to cut off his head, and in a year come
to the Green Chapel and be beheaded. Sir Gawain was the only knight
accepting this challenge. After a year, Gawain rides off to the forest
& finds a hunter's cabin. Hunter tells him to be his guest for three days before
heading to the Green Chapel that's just a few hundred yards away. He says
to Gawain "I'll bring back everything I got during the day, & you give to me
what you have got during the day."
After the hunter left, his gorgeous wife comes to Gawain's bed and invites him to love.
As an Arthurian knight,
he can't betray his host, and resists this woman. So she gives him one big kiss. When the hunter
returns with a
great haul of game, throws it on the floor, and Gawain gives him a kiss, and they laugh.
Second day, a similar
event, the wife comes in and Gawain gets two kisses. The hunter
comes back with about half as much game
and he gets two kisses, and they laugh. The third day, the wife gives him
three kisses and her garter. She says, "This will protect you against any danger."
The hunter comes home with just one smelly fox, throws it on the
ground, and he gets three kisses but no garter. When Gawain goes to the Green Chapel,
the Green Knight tells
him to put his head on the block to be chopped off. And then the ax comes down, and whew just cuts
his neck
a little bit. And the Green Knight says, "That's for the garter." The Green Knight was
the hunter in disguise.
Because Sir Gawain resisted his wife's temptation, he spared
Gawain's life. A courageous tale of chivalry
recounted in Marie Borroff's 2010 translation of
Sir Gawain and the Green Knight (2010).
Verse 1100:
Hunstman tells Gawain he's out for the day (p. 30) to Verse 2395: wife's girdle as gift to Gawain (p. 61). |
Joseph Campbell quotes Schopenhauer
"How can one sacrifice one's life for another?"
and relates the story at Pali, Hawaii
where two policeman saw a man ready
While reading Joseph Campbell's story about the courage of Sir Gawain,
came across another one of his tale on bravery. He quotes Schopenhauer
"How can one sacrifice one's life for another?"
and tells about a policeman
rescuing a man jumping off the cliff at Pali Lookout in Hawaii (pp. 110-111). |
to jump off a cliff the policeman grabbed
him as he jumped & the other policeman
rescued them both. The police said "If I let
him go, I couldn't live for another day."
Nu'uanu Pali Lookout
Oahu, Hawaii
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Pali Lookout Cliff
Oahu, Hawaii
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Nu'uanu Pali is a section of the windward cliff of the Ko'olau mountain located
at the head of Nu'uanu Valley on the island
of Oahu. It has a panoramic view of the windward (northeast)
coast of Oahu. The Pali Highway (Hawaii State Highway 61)
connecting Kailua/Kane'ohe with downtown Honolulu runs through Nu'uanu
Pali Tunnels bored into the cliffside. Nu'uanu
Pali was the site of
Battle of Nu'uanu (May 1795),
one of the bloodiest battles in Hawaiian history, in which
Kamehameha I
conquered the island of Oahu, bringing it under his rule.
Joseph Campbell:
"A police car was on its way up a little road to Pali Lookout,
and they saw just beyond the railing that keeps cars from rolling over, a young man
actually clearly about to jump. The police car stopped. The policeman on the right
jumps out to grab the boy, and grabs him just as he jumped and was himself being
pulled over, and would have gone over if the second cop hadn't gotten around,
grabbed him and pull the two of them back. And the policeman was asked, "Why didn't you let go?"
His duty to his family, to his job, to his own
career, all of his wishes and hopes for life, just disappeared.
And his answer was, "I couldn't let go. If I'd let that young man go, I could not have lived another day of my life."
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Schopenhauer's answer is that crisis
marks a breakthrough in realization
that you and all the others are one
Lucky & brave are those who have found this Love.
The World as Will and
Representation (1818)
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Sage's Vision
in Isa Upanishads
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Freeman Dyson
Enlighenment at 15
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Joseph Campbell's quote of Schopenhauer is from his
The World as Will and
Representation (1818). Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy summaries
Schopenauer's
views on ethics (2bii): "The compassion of the good person tries to alleviate
the suffering of others. At its highest point, someone may recognize the suffering
of others with such clarity that he is willing to sacrifice his own well-being for
the sake of others, if by doing so the suffering he will alleviate outweighs the
suffering he must endure. This, says Schopenhauer, is the highest point in ethical conduct."
We find this teaching in Christ:
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."
(John 15:13).
Verse 6 of Isa Upanishad proclaims the sage's vision
"Who sees all beings in his own Self, and his own Self in all beings, loses all fears."
Freeman Dyson (born 1923) had such an
enlightenment experience at 15.
When he found out in March 1939 that his name was not on the football game list.
"And in a blinding flash of inner light I saw the answer to both my problems,
the problem of war and the problem of injustice. The answer was amazingly simple.
I call it Cosmic Unity. Cosmic Unity said: There is only one of us. We are all
the same person. I am you and I am everybody." Dyson's
"Dream of God".
Met him at Stanford (3-14-2001)
on Pi Day, when Dyson told me the names of his two younger daughters who accompanied him to see God.
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